Thursday, 24 March 2016

Scientists reveal the real reason we close our eyes when we kiss


Scientists reveal the real reason we close our eyes when we kiss

 
The real reason people close their eyes when they kiss is because the brain can't deal with more than two things at once. 
That is the finding of academics who have explored one of the great mysteries of the human psyche. 
When people pucker up the brain finds it difficult to process the sensation if cognitive power is also being used to analyse what we see, said psychologists from Royal Holloway, University of London.
'Tactile awareness depends on the level of perceptual load in a concurrent visual task,' said Polly Dalton and Sandra Murphy, from the university, in the Journal of Experimental Psychology: Human Perception and Performance.
The cognitive psychologists reached their conclusion without studying people actually kissing.
Instead people were asked do visual tests while their response to something touching their hands was measured. 
The academics found that the visual field overrides tactile responses - meaning people would struggle to continue kissing if what they were looking at became more difficult to process. 
Dr Dalton told The Sunday Times: 'If we are focusing strongly on a visual task, this will reduce our awareness of stimuli in other senses. 
'It is important for designers to be aware of these effects, because auditory and tactile alerts are often used in situations of high visual demand, such as driving a car or flying an aircraft.'
The findings could also explain why people often shut their eyes whilst reading braille or when dancing. 
Dr Dalton added: 'These results could explain why we close our eyes when we want to focus attention on another sense. Shutting out the visual input leaves more mental resources to focus on other aspects of our experience.'

Credit: Daily Mail

Drawing the line between rape and a one-night-stand!



Drawing the line between rape and a one-night-stand!
WHAT sort of buzz, drives a man to one-night-stand, relationships? Lola had accompanied her friend to her ex-husband’s birthday party, hoping to have the good time she promised. “He has birthday bashes annually”, said Lola, “and my friend has stayed friends with her ex because he was a good provider even when their marriage wasn’t really working.
“He is a real clown, more a Jack-the-dad than the successful man he’s turned out to be. The party, apart from its not being a landmark one, was elaborate —good food, good booze and a good crowd. The music was a jazzy mix. Later in the evening, I stood outside the busy toilet when he said I could use the one in his bedroom. I wasn’t there one minute, when he burst in and was all over me. I was shocked. He mumbled that he’d been watching me all evening; that he’d found me attractive for ages, and all those mushy things men say when they are in heat. I was shocked and terribly embarrassed. I had never given him the impression I fancied him.

“I tried to beat him off but he was too strong. Unfortunately, my knickers were already round my ankles and he raped me there and then. He was out of the toilet before I knew what had happened! I felt so used and humiliated and when I got back to the party, I thought every-one would know what had happened to me. But they all just carried on enjoying themselves. My rapist didn’t as much as look my way and when we left, he even saw us off telling my friend what a beautiful lady I was. I felt so humiliated, I wanted to blurt out what happened but who would believe me?”
Kayode prided himself on being a good one-night-stand man. “I simply love the challenge of bedding a girl the first time I met her, if I find her attractive, that is”, he bragged. “The moment I clamp my eyes on a victim, the possibilities start running through my mind. Will we be sexually compatible? Will I come too quickly or won’t I be able to come at all?” One night stands have a habit of cropping up, if not often, then once in a while, especially nights when there is too much flirting and drinking at parties, giving you too much build-up opportunity. Then you kid yourself that the chemistry between you and your victim is right and then, wham!
“Of course, I’ve burnt my fingers from time to time. I’ve discovered, for instance, that my prowess between the sheets—if you call it that—has become topic for conversation at some female get together during the course of their now frequent drinking chin-wags. Women, like men, now freely discuss their sexual escapades, and I’ve listened to a few deride the techniques of some really influential men. Makes your flesh crawl at times!
‘They are certainly more brazen than men especially when they’ve had a few drinks. So, it’s not only men that are the predators. Some women offer you sex on the platter when it is the furtherest thing from your mind!”

Credit:Vanguard Nigeria

Daytime Sleepiness, Long Naps Tied to Heart Risks

Daytime Sleepiness, Long Naps Tied to Heart Risks

People who nap more than 1 hour a day also more likely to develop type 2 diabetes, researchers say
Tired businesswoman at office desk waking up with pillow and coffee. - stock photo
While getting enough sleep is key to health, a new study suggests that long daytime naps may not be doing your heart any favors.
The researchers found that long naps and excessive daytime sleepiness were associated with an increased risk for a combination of health problems that are collectively known as metabolic syndrome. And that can boost the risk of heart disease and diabetes.
Metabolic syndrome includes conditions such as high blood pressure, high cholesterol, high blood sugar and excess fat around the waist.
The investigators analyzed the findings of 21 studies that included a total of more than 307,000 people. The research showed that people who napped for less than 40 minutes were not at increased risk for metabolic syndrome. In fact, those who napped less than 30 minutes had a slight decrease in risk.
But there was a sharp rise in risk among those who napped for more than 40 minutes, the study authors said. For example, napping for more than 90 minutes appeared to increase the risk of metabolic syndrome by as much as 50 percent, as did excessive daytime sleepiness.
The review also found that napping for more than an hour or being overly tired during the day were both linked with a 50 percent higher risk for type 2 diabetes.
However, the study only found an association between these factors, and did not prove that excessive sleepiness and long naps actually cause metabolic syndrome or diabetes.
The findings are to be presented April 3 at an American College of Cardiology (ACC) meeting in Chicago. Research presented at meetings is typically considered preliminary until published in a peer-reviewed journal.
"Taking naps is widely prevalent around the world," study author Dr. Tomohide Yamada, a diabetologist at the University of Tokyo, said in an ACC news release. "So, clarifying the relationship between naps and metabolic disease might offer a new strategy of treatment, especially as metabolic disease has been increasing steadily all over the world," he added.
About one-third of American adults do not get enough sleep, according to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. The National Sleep Foundation recommends naps of 20 to 30 minutes to boost alertness.
"Sleep is an important component of our healthy lifestyle, as well as diet and exercise," Yamada said. "Short naps might have a beneficial effect on our health, but we don't yet know the strength of that effect or the mechanism by which it works.

-"WebMD

ADULTS ONLY

Just what is it that makes a guy good in bed? Physical fitness? Dirty talk? These 12 tips to please a woman in bed are sure to keep her totally satisfied!
Often, guys think that concentrating on foreplay is a waste of time. Why bother when you can get to the good stuff right away, right?
Well, the truth is, if you are looking to make your woman extremely happy when it comes to sex*, you need to take your time, and make sure you warm her up before diving in.

How to please your woman and ensure she has a fantastic time in bed

Giving a woman a mind-blowing orgasm*—whether you are in a loving relationship or not—is not only great for her, but is going to make you feel pretty pleased with yourself. Give these awesome tricks a try to make foreplay and se*x a fantastic experience for you both. [Read:

#1 Take your time. Start off slowly—and we mean really slowly. Gently stroke her legs, right from the tips of her toes all the way up her thighs, kiss her legs, and, if you are brave, *and provided she is not super ticklish, of course* slowly suck her toes to leave her writhing in ecstasy and begging you for more.
#2 Ask her what she likes. No two women are the same, and communication is key to great sex*. Asking her what she likes, and what she wants you to do to her, is the easiest way of knowing where her pleasure zones are.
Be specific. Does she like you touching her lightly, or hard? Does she want you to go fast or slow? Make sure you are listening to what she is saying and make sure you make her feel comfortable enough to speak up, whether you do it before you start or in the moment.

Similarly, you can find out what her no-go areas are—for example, some women might love you pulling their hair, while others may find this painful and slightly aggressive—so make sure you find out before you do it.
Women appreciate a guy who cares about her pleasure during sex*, so even if she might be shy, encouraging her to let you know is sure to go down well.

#3 Let her know how much you love turning her on. If she feels like you are just going through the motions during foreplay, and are bored or simply doing it as a favor before the main event, it isn’t going to work.
She wants to feel as though you are enjoying it and getting into it, too, so make sure she knows how much you are enjoying yourself. That way, she can relax and enjoy it, too.

#4 Slow and steady wins the race. OK, so most men know that by stimulating the clitoris, you are going to give your woman some serious pleasure. However, it’s a sensitive little thing and by touching, licking, rubbing, or nibbling it too forcefully, you are likely to cause your woman some discomfort. Not exactly what you are going for!
Start off gently and pay it attention for a minute or so before moving somewhere else. This will build up tension, and with it, you can increase the pressure, back off again, and repeat, until she is crying out for you to keep going.

#5 Use the figure-eight trick. If you are giving her oral se*x, the best way to drive her wild is by tracing your tongue in a figure eight around her clit. Alternate this with increasingly firmer licks, stimulating the clitoris itself. If you consistently vary the pressure and motion, it will drive her wild, for sure.
#6 Don’t neglect the less obvious erogenous zones. Some guys think by focusing on the vagina, they are working their magic. However, there are plenty of other ways to get your woman super turned on, and these should not be ignored.
Kissing her neck, nibbling her earlobes, and gently caressing, stroking, and nibbling on her nipples are all areas which will make her totally horny, so make sure you pay attention to these, too!

#7 Experiment with different positions. Many women find it difficult to achieve orgasm through penetrative sex* alone… but that doesn’t mean it is impossible.
Have fun with s*ex and try out loads of different positions. Penetrate her at different angles, take it slow, and ask her what feels good. You can also use your hands during intercourse to stimulate her clitoris to help her get there.

#8 Make it last. While it is actually a myth that girls long for hour-long se*x sessions each time, *they’ve got stuff to be getting on with, too, you know* you also don’t want to be winning races for your speed in the sack.
If you are worried about getting off too early, make sure you focus on how you feel before you are about to orgasm, and not right at the last minute, when there is pretty much nothing in the world that can stop you!
When you start feeling those more subtle sensations, slow it down, or switch positions to make sure you last a bit longer.

#9 Don’t forget the simple stuff. Many sexual encounters start off with a kiss, but 10 minutes later and all that mushy stuff is forgotten as you get down to it.
Women actually respond really well to great kissing. Intense, passionate kisses will make her feel more connected to you, so make sure you remember to keep it up throughout.

#10 Compliments, compliments. Make sure you give a girl compliments. You will see a dramatic change in how much she enjoys se*x.
Ladies need reassurance in the sack as much as the rest of us, so not only do you need to tell her how good she looks and how much she turns you on, you also need to let her know how great it is when she initiates se*x or goes to town on you.

Afterward, tell her how good she is in bed, or what she did that was awesome; knowing this will boost her confidence and make her feel more relaxed and willing to try new things next time. :

#11 Take her out. If you want to really get your woman in the mood, then you’ve got to treat her right! You can’t just wander into the living room when she’s halfway through an episode of Girls and expect her to come running. Show her how much you care by wining and dining her, and she is sure to show her appreciation later.
#12 Toys, por*n, and talking dirty. If you think that you and your lady are in a bit of a sexual rut, why not introduce some fun, new elements into the bedroom?
There is a huge range of sexual aids available nowadays, so why not talk about what you both might like? You don’t have to turn all Dorian Grey on her straightaway, but discussing what you want to try and shopping together can be a turn on in and of itself.
-Bigtriceonline.com

Monday, 21 March 2016

9 things that can break a condom during sex

9 things that can break a condom during sex

 Have you ever had a condom break on you during sex? It’s terrifying. The good news is that it is avoidable in the future, as long as you learned why it happened. Condom bursting, tearing, breaking, ripping can because by a number of things...
 
Sometimes, condom fail to give the protection they are worn for – mostly due to the fault of the user.
Most often than not, it is as a result of improper use (wearing) of the condom and , like Wha’anda has severally said, a condom is 98% effective if used well and 0% effective if wrongly used.
It can be terrifying sometimes to find that the condom you are wearing is broken and your sexual safety has been compromised, with possible pregnancy and/or s exually transmitted diseases (STDs).
 
Have you ever had a condom break on you? It’s terrifying. The good news is that it is avoidable in the future, as long as you learned why it happened.

Condom bursting, tearing, breaking, ripping can because by a number of things:
  1. Expired/wrongly stored – an expired condom or one that was stored in extreme temperatures, left in wallets and places where pressure is applied to it. It weakens and might tear
  2. Air bubble in the condom – if you allow air bubble to remain when wearing the condom, you might have a pressure point that will lead to a tear when thrusting
  3. Too tight – if the condom is too tight, it could tear during sex
  4. Not lubricated – the condom’s material became dry and hot because not enough additional lubricant was added;
  5. Oil-based lube – if you use improvised oil-based lubricant like Vaseline or other petroleum jelly, you could weaken the condom  leading to a leak/tear
  6. Wrongly opened – if you opened condom with your teeth, scissors, or a knife you can compromise the integrity and rip it. when you attempt s ex, it is likely to tear further
  7. Hairy vaginal/Penis area – during s ex involving hairy pubic region, there is the possibility that hair strands are pushed in and the continuous friction can tear the condom
  8. Newly shaved vagina – hair on a newly shaved vagina is prickly and sharp. It can tear the condom at the slightest contact
  9. Lack of space at the tip of a condom – when wearing a condom, you need to leave a little space at the tip. If this is not done, it could tear, especially during ejaculation.
     
    -bigtriceonline.com

Saturday, 19 March 2016

Identical twins who share a boyfriend vow to get pregnant at the same time

Identical twins who share a boyfriend vow to get pregnant at the same time

Identical twins who share everything including a boyfriend say they want to fall pregnant at the same time.
Anna and Lucy DeCinque, 30, from Perth, follow identical diets and exercise routines and have spent nearly $250,000 (£177,000) on cosmetic enhancements – including breast implants and fake eyebrows – to look more alike.
Anna Lucy DeCinque Ben Byrne
They even have the same boyfriend – 32-year-old electrical mechanic Ben Byrne – and plan to fall pregnant at the same time because their ‘bodies need to be the same.’
‘We would have to be exactly the same – even if we went through IVF at the same time,’ they told news.com.au
Anna Lucy DeCinque Ben Byrne
The pair appeared on SBS’s Insight to discuss identical twins and they changes they undergo as they age.
Though identical twins share 99.9 per cent of genetic information, Anna and Lucy make their own efforts to be as similar as possible.
‘If she walks a few metres, I need to walk a few metres because we have to burn the same calories,’ Lucy said.
‘Our diet is identical. Our food has to be identical. The same glass of water we measure. The same size of chip packets we have to measure.’

-soobolonewsonline

Ghana to become net-exporter of rice by 2020 – Mahama

Ghana to become net-exporter of rice by 2020 – Mahama

Government has targeted to position Ghana as a net-exporter of Rice by the year 2020, President Mahama has said.
President Mahama who announced this during an address to a select Committee of the Scottish Parliament in Edinburgh as part of his four-day working visit to that country said: “We’ve taken rice from the production of 30-60% as I speak and so gradually we’re reducing rice import to Ghana”

RiceThe importation of rice top the chart of six commodities that the Ghanaian economy has comparative advantage to produce yet are imported in huge volumes into the country, because of the high demand on the market.
At least 1.5 billion dollars go into the importation of these products annually,including rice but President Mahama has reiterated as part of measures by government to reduce drastically the importation of rice, it will prop up local production that will lead to a steady decline in imported rice.
The price of imported rice has seen continuous reduction of about 20 percent in February, according to ESOKO.
ESOKO Ghana Commodity Index has attributed the continuous decline in the price of imported rice to an increase in demand for local rice by consumers.

-Kasapafmonline

Kwaso A/R: Snake invaded town fumigated; residents heave sigh of relieve

Kwaso A/R: Snake invaded town fumigated; residents heave sigh of relieve

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Fear stricken residents of Kwaso Denkyenso in the Ejisu Juabeng Municipality of the Ashanti Region whose homes are invaded by snakes at night for the past four days, are expected to heave a sigh of relieve after the area was fumigated Friday.
The village has been sprayed with chemicals to kill the reptiles or ward them off from accessing the homes of the residents.
Hundreds of snakes were killed in about seven houses on Wednesday, a situation which left the inhabitants full of trepidation.
The invasion peaks between 7:00 & 8:00 pm each night.
No snake bites have been recorded yet, but the resident had earlier indicated that they just can’t go to bed peacefully as they are frightened to the core.

The residents who have been wondering how to go to sleep in the coming days, due to the worrying development are yet to see the potency of the chemicals used. Earlier they recounted their ordeal.
“We are stunned by this invasion of snakes. There are no over grown weeds and bushes around the town,  we are really at a loss where they came from. We have had sleepless nights since three days ago after the rains. By the time you realize you have these unwelcome visitors (snakes) already in your room. When you choose to sit outside, they gather at your feet. Someone killed 63, others killed 25 and 42 respectively and I killed 21 snakes just yesterday. The situation is very worrying and something needs to be done about it urgently” the Assemblyman noted.

But speaking to Kasapa News Friday, Assemblyman for the area, Patrick Frimpong stated that the spraying exercise initiated by the Ashanti Regional Security Council started around 4:00pm and it’s expected to end the invasion of the snakes.
He further called on authorities to provide the town with streetlights to illuminate the area, as the town is full of darkness during the nights, a situation he noted put the lives of the residents at risk.

-Kasapafmonline

Ghana DJ Awards 2016 Winners: See Full List


Ghana DJ Awards 2016
Ghana DJ Awards 2016 Winners: See Full List

The Ghana DJ Awards 2016 was held last night at the Accra International Conference Centre.The ceremony started at exactly 11:02 pm, and was hosted by Joy Fm's Lexis Bill, MzGee and KMJ
The event featured performances from  Kwaw Kese, MzVee, Galaxy, Eno, Chameleon, Akpaatse Apaa, Ras Kuuku, Don Icthy and Baba Spirit.
DJ Black took home the award for Best DJ Of The Year for the fourth year running. Other winners include DJ Vyrusky, Dj Advicer and more
Here is the winners list:

BEST DJ OF THE YEAR

DJ Black – Joy FM

BEST HIPLIFE DJ OF THE YEAR
DJ Azonto – Pink FM

BEST HIGHLIFE DJ OF THE YEAR

Mickey Darling – Peace FM

BEST REGGAE/DANCEHALL DJ OF THE YEAR
King Lagazee – Hitz FM

BEST ARTISTE DJ OF THE YEAR

DJ Justice – Stonebwoy’s DJ

BEST MIXTAPE DJ OF YEAR
DJ X Dumsology

DJ DISCOVERY OF THE YEAR
DJ Wabs

CAMPUS DJ OF THE YEAR
DJ Snipes (UPSA)

BEST MUSIC PROMOTER OF THE YEAR
DJ Advicer – Happy FM

SCRATCH DJ OF THE YEAR
Mr Kaxtro – Ultimate FM

BEST EVENT DJ OF THE YEAR
DJ Vyrusky – Starr FM

BEST PUB DJ OF THE YEAR
Mac Tonto – Reggys Pub (Santa Maria)

BEST VIDEO JOCKEY OF THE YEAR
DJ Xpliph – GHOne TV (Rhythmz Tv)

BEST MOBILE DJ
DJ Collins – Rainbow Radio

BEST GOSPEL DJ OF THE YEAR
Agyemang – Rainbow Radio

BEST MALE RADIO DJ OF THE YEAR
DJ Black – Joy FM

BEST INTERNATIONAL GHANAIAN DJ
DJ Invisible – UK

BEST INTERNATIONAL NON-GHANAIAN DJ
DJ Jimmy Jatt – Nigeria

BEST CLUB MC OF THE YEAR
MC Kay

BEST NIGHT CLUB DJ OF THE YEAR
DJ DJ K Krak of Bella Roma

BEST FEMALE RADIO DJ OF THE YEAR
Ohemaa Woyeje – Adom FM

DJs’ SONG OF THE YEAR
Kakai – Shatta Wale

BEST FEMALE DJ OF THE YEAR
DJ MJ

-soobolonewsonline